Programmes

Moving on and relinquishing your dreams of having your own children can be a painful experience in your life. For many this loss and journey through the grief process can be a lonely and difficult road.

Wherever you are in your journey of ‘moving on’ from trying to trying conceive, our tailored programmes offer support and guidance at a level you feel comfortable with.
Our programmes offer a tailored toolkit of support, self-exploration, personal development and growth..


  • One to one sessions

  • Bespoke ‘One to one sessions’ are designed for those people who are dealing with involuntary childlessness and require a personal level of support over a longer period of time.

    12 week programme:

    This 12 week programme is flexible to fit with your needs and designed to give you the opportunity to reflect personally on your journey of involuntary childlessness ‘to date’ and identify new possibilities in all areas of life.

    Sessions:

    After a first initial 1:1 daylong session, weekly sessions of between 1 and 2 hours will be followed up via Skype to help coach and support you.

    Life-changing tools:

    You will be guided through a series of life-changing tools including, energy work, life wheel, visualisation and meditation, which will be shared during the sessions to assist you on your journey now and in the future.

    EFT:

    The amazing Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) will be taught and used to help clear energy blockages in the body which are linked to the negative thoughts and feelings associated with childlessness – aiding in overall well-being and happiness.

    Contact me, using the form here [link] to request a call back to discuss this programme and prices.

  • Personal Development Coaching

  • Personal Development Coaching is aimed at those people who are at the ‘moving on’ stage in their journey. Coaching sessions usually take place over the course of 6 weeks and consists of a series of unique and personal 1:1 coaching sessions which will:

    Re-connect:

    Provide an opportunity to re-connect with a sense of personal power in order to lead a fulfilling and purposeful life.

    Discover:

    Enable you to discover how to live your life knowing that you have a unique purpose to fulfil that no one else but YOU can make happen.

    Grow:

    Challenge you with questions which enable you to identify opportunities to move towards your goals using the ‘GROW’ model.

    Flourish:

    Allow to you identify and remove the emotional blocks which leave you feeling helpless and often ‘not good enough’ and allow you to FLOURISH!.

    Resilient:

    Lead you to feel more focussed, positive, purposeful and resilient!

    Do you want to make changes and get started straight away? Contact me to request a time.

  • Workshops

  • Tailored daily and weekend workshops enable you to connect with a small group of people facing involuntary childlessness. Set in a comfortable setting, you will discover ways to deal with the loss associated with childlessness by working through a series of activities and self-reflection in a safe and nurturing environment.

    Whatever circumstances led you to involuntary childlessness, our workshops will cater for all and help you discovery a way of being able to live a life of passion and purpose.

February Workshop
  • Workshop
  • What: Dealing with Involuntary Childlessness - Strategies for coming to terms with childlessness, including EFT
  • When: Saturday 4th February
  • Where: Makeney Hall, Derbyshire
  • With: Kelly Dasilva
2017-02-04 10:00:00 2017-02-04 16:00:00 Europe/London Workshop Dealing with Involuntary Childlessness - Strategies for coming to terms with childlessness, including EFT Makeney Hall, Derbyshire Kelly Dasilva thedovecoteorg@gmail.com
April Workshop
  • Workshop
  • What: Dealing with Involuntary Childlessness - Strategies for coming to terms with childlessness, including EFT
  • When: Saturday 8th April
  • Where: Makeney Hall, Derbyshire
  • With: Kelly Dasilva
2017-04-08 10:00:00 2017-04-08 16:00:00 Europe/London Workshop Dealing with Involuntary Childlessness - Strategies for coming to terms with childlessness, including EFT Makeney Hall, Derbyshire Kelly Dasilva thedovecoteorg@gmail.com

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  • Here is a place to see week by week notices

  • Skype calls

A convenient way to talk through what you’re experiencing without having to leave your home.

Do you:

  • Find it difficult to speak to people about your situation because they ‘simply don’t get it’?
  • Feel shame about being ‘childless - not by choice’?
  • Struggle to cope with social and family events where there are children present?
  • Have limiting beliefs about feeling like a failure, not being good enough and that you don’t deserve happiness because of your circumstances?
  • Lack direction and feel terrified that life is beginning to pass you by?
  • Struggle with the question ‘Now what’ and wonder if you’ll ever find a ‘passion and purpose in your life’?
  • Feel scared that you might fail if you try something new?
  • Want to speak to someone who understands how it feels to be in this situation?

Instead you want:

  • To live a life you LOVE with passion and purpose.
  • Feel a sense of excitement and joy by life again.
  • To learn how to manage your negative thoughts and beliefs.
  • Realise the energy blocks which hold you back and make you self-sabotage.
  • Support and guidance from someone who understands and believes in you.
  • Have tools which can be easily applied to your life with fabulous results!
  • To not feel guilty for putting yourself first and practicing ‘self-love and care’
  • To feel at peace and content, living authentically.

If you feel like any of these things relate to you, Skype, FaceTime or phone calls are a fabulous and convenient way to talk through what you’re experiencing without having to leave your home.
Want to get started straight away? Contact me, using the form here to request a time.

  • Retreats

Space to reflect

From time to time we all need a place to retreat to, a sanctuary, somewhere we can rest and reflect, free from the pressures and of everyday life and society's expectations.

Our ‘holistic person centred retreats’ offer over you an opportunity to ‘get away from it all’ in a choice of stunning settings. Whether it is walking in the calm and beautiful countryside or along the sea front, having space to reflect and spending time with people who help you to make sense of things that are happening in our life is the core purpose of these retreats.

Come and spend time with a small group of other people in a similar situation and be nurtured and guided, using a tools and techniques that increase a sense of well-being, passion and purpose.
Retreats are tailored to suit the individuals in the group.
For more information contact me, using the form here


Retreats (Dates coming soon…)

  • Webinars / Digital Courses

Free Webinars allow you the opportunity to connect with me, share your thoughts and ask questions on a series of different topics associated with involuntary childlessness. These will be available through Google Hangout via our Dovecote Community. Times and dates will be posted shortly.
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Download our Online / Digital Courses and programmes and work through a series of reflective activities and tool at your own pace.

  • Work through the activities in your own time
  • Connect, share and discuss your thoughts, feelings and ‘Ah ha’ moments with other people on the programmes via Dovecote Community.